For some reason, my entire time in Australia has been very nostalgic. There are many times that good memories pop up in my head and I am able to reflect on that time in my life and how I felt. It's funny that travelling and living abroad had brought these memories and feelings all back to me. I would say that living in Australia has changed me in many ways, but one thing that has always remained constant is my love of a good card game.
The other day I had another nostalgic moment where I was thinking of a time when I was surrounding a picnic table with some friends and family in a campsite back at home. The fire was crackling in the dark and we each held a hand of cards which we could only see by nonchalantly shifting our hands into the stream of the propane light. This memory flooded my brain with other memories where I would be holding a hand of cards and it brought a feeling of warmth to me. As I reflected on these experiences, I came to realize how important playing cards are to me in my lived experiences and who I am as a person.
Like I mentioned, travelling and living abroad has changed me in many ways. Not to be egotistical, but I feel like it has benefited me by making me a better person - more awesome, if you will. I have become more social, confident, adaptable, adventurous and perhaps even a little smarter. The more I travel, the more universal my thoughts, ideas and conversations become. Like playing cards, travelling has a large influence on my everyday learning and who I have become not only as a person but also as a teacher. It just so happens that travelling and playing cards have almost always gone hand in hand.
Through my travels around Australia, New Zealand and South Africa, I have come to realize that travelling, and in particular - staying in hostels, is the best way to meet new people each and every day. These people come from all around the world, all with stories just as unique as mine to share. There is something so profound about sitting at a table surrounded by people who came from each edge of the Earth with a willingness to share their stories and listen to others. I'm sure that a hand of cards is one of the best ways to be able to connect and get to know new friends.
More often than not while we were travelling, we would find ourselves sitting
around a table each with a hand of cards that had been dealt to us. In
everyone's hand - a different combination of cards. I like to think of the cards as metaphor of our lives; possibly representing our pasts, our presents, or our
futures. Whether they represent one thing or another, the truth
is, those very cards are what brought everyone sitting around the table
together. The cards engaged everyone in conversation and sparked the enthusiasm
of some to lay their cards on the table for everyone else to see.
Whether my metaphoric interpretation
of playing cards engages you or not - the fact is that I realized that playing
cards - a standard pile of 52
plastic-coated, distinguishably marked pieces of paper
- have come to mean a whole lot more to me that I ever expected and have been a
part of my own learning experiences since the very beginning. Now that I have looked back on many different memories, I have come to the realization that for the most part, playing cards
have been the foundation for much of my learning. It’s not one specific place
that has taught me some of the most valuable lessons in life; rather, it is the
numerous hands of cards that I have held in different spaces that has guided my
learning. These lessons have shaped my learning, molded me as a teacher,
constructed me into a lifelong learner, and guided me as a curriculum-maker.
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| This friendship all started with a game of cards! |
Besides the obvious, such as
learning how to count and to add numbers, playing cards have taught me some bigger
life lessons. Allow me to put this into perspective.
Sense of Belonging
I said it earlier and I’ll say it
again: playing cards brings people together. Looking back, I don’t think there
was ever a family gathering where the good old casino quality deck of cards wasn’t
brought out for a game of some sort. A simple game of cards can bring people
together and as I have recently experienced, a game can bring people from all
over the world together. The cards give you a sense of belonging or a reason
why you are suddenly surrounded by the people around you. Whether I played
cards on the red marble covered table at my grandparents, on a plane meal tray
flying over Africa, on a rickety picnic table somewhere in Australia or
gathered around a coffee table in a cozy cabin nestled by a creek in New
Zealand; a deck of cards has always given me a sense of belonging and a reason
to believe that I am where I am for a purpose.
Don’t Expect an Easy Way Out
If you’ve ever played cards with me,
perhaps you have witnessed me with a hand full of jokers – for some reason they
always wind up in my hand (I swear I
don’t cheat), sometimes allowing me to easily win a round – or two. BUT,
you aren’t always dealt the jokers or the wild cards, so there isn’t always
going to be an easy way out. My Grandpa taught me this lesson
best. Even though I was his granddaughter and he loved me, there was no way he
would ever let me win. I never realized at the time (and maybe he didn’t either) but my grandpa was teaching me a whole
lot about life in a single card game. There were times, I wanted to give up and
not play cards against him because the probability of me winning a hand was
never in my favour! He played to win and he was merciless when there were cards
on the table. However, he taught me that it is alright to lose as long as I
continue to give it my best the next time to try and win. Even when things are
hard, don’t throw in your cards and give up. Just try again.
Pass
Your Knowledge onto Others
If you’re a frequent card player, or
frequently find yourself around card players, you’ll notice that each person
knows different rules to some games, such as Rummy, where there are many
versions to be played. You’ll hear, “We play it this way,” or “I’ve never heard
of those rules before!” I enjoy the diversity each player is able to bring to
the table. It allows for us to pass along our knowledge of the game while being
able to absorb others knowledge of the same game. It’s fun to sometimes combine
rules of different games to make a new game, as long as all the players agree
on the rules! There are also times when some people may not know a particular game and you have to opportunity to teach them the rules and how to play the game. It’s all about collaboration and passing on what you know to
others.
Always
Be Present or You’ll Miss Something
In my early days of playing cards,
I’m sure my family can testify to me never really being present in a game. I
was off making sounds that annoyed them, I wasn’t thinking of how to play my
cards before it got to my turn and I would have to be reminded that, in fact, it
is my turn and so on. I would miss the fact that someone laid a wild card for
me as they simply had too many or I would unknowingly have my opponents take
advantage of me because I was not present in the game. I would miss
something that was right in front of my eyes. Over time, I ditched the sound
making and the wandering eyes and mind and learned how to focus on a game and
to strategize, planning out my next move. In the long run, this has taught me
about life. To live in the present. To not dwell on the past and to not worry
about what may or may not happen in the future. Just to simply be present,
where you are in each moment of the day. To look where your feet are planted, love every minute of it and don't miss out on the little things.
You
Can Still Win With a Bad Hand
The funny thing about playing cards is that you can be dealt really, really bad hands. You might not have anything you can work with or you might have nothing at all to play. This can go one of two ways. No matter what strategy you have in place or how strong your strategy might be - sometimes the cards just don't go your way. This happens in life too. You could have the best laid plan in the world, but things don't always turn out the way you imagined. And just like in a game of cards, you find out it's going to all be all right in the end. The same situation can go the other way as well. Maybe you're dealt a poor hand but there still a chance, even just a small chance, that if you play your cards right, you can come out winning - even against all odds. And really, is there a better feeling than being able to win with a bad hand?
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